Blaming Fat Women For Our Lack of Clothing Options

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Read this if you have time….

This is a post that probably echoes everything I feel when my ‘slim’ friends send me pics of cute dresses they buy and I can barely find an option for XXL or size 16 that I wear online or elsewhere. I am tired of feeling angry but it is anger I feel when Anita Dongre says they don’t make clothes above size 12. Let’s just say, if money isn’t an issue with me, I am still confident I will not find the choices I would like to have in fashion.

There.. read the article and you will get what I mean.

Tutus And Tiny Hats

rack of floofy betsey johnson dresses Give me the pretties, pleeeeease.

While I’m on a roll of ranting about things that piss me off, here’s another one: the recent trend of blaming the lack of plus size clothing options on the supposed buying habits of plus size customers. This piece in TIME, and this one on Fashionista are two examples, and they make me so viscerally angry that it’s hard to respond articulately–but I’ll try.

“[R]eal change for plus-size fashion will come when customers make more conscious purchasing decisions,” claims the TIME piece. Hahahahaha, no. Real change will come when companies realize that fat women are people and start making clothes in our size. It’s kind of ridiculous to insist that fat women’s shopping choices must be the issue, when our whole problem is that we don’t have enough options to choose from in the first place.

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Recently a ‘tag’ started on the social media site Facebook, it was a re-hash of an older tag, about naming your top 10 books. In the tag rules it was specifically mentioned that the books one names need not be literary works of great repute and one one wasn’t supposed to spend more than a few minutes on coming up with the names. I found many such tag posts on my news feed, some had names of books I had heard and read, while others contained names of books I had to Google. I am not judging anyone over the names they posted but I also know on some level everyone was judging everyone else, including me. Yes, I wrote that I wasn’t judging anyone, but was I so capable of being non-judgemental? I don’t think so. The truth is I was a bit surprised at my own lack of straight forwardness when posting on this tag. I am not one of those people who can pretend that I cannot select 10 books out of my limited reading list. I can, simply because its not a legal announcement I am making with an affidavit, I am merely talking about some choices, which may or may not change the next time someone asks me.

All said and done, I wrote down the first 10 names that came to mind and soon realized they didn’t make the cut. They were mostly books which were part of my curriculum since school days and I enjoyed reading them primarily because they were explained to me and I researched enough on them. They weren’t a surprise, they weren’t out of the ordinary. Then I tried naming another 10 books which weren’t a part of my academic studies, that turned out to be a bust too, because then I found I had pretty much named my favorite kind of easy to read fiction and with a bias to Indians writing in English, which has been my soft spot for years.

Ultimately, I came up with this list which seemed to me somewhat balanced, non biased and definitely worthy of me as a Student of Literature.

1. Rajkahini by Abonindranath Thakur
2. The Hitchikers Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams
3. The Mousetrap by Agatha Christie
4. The Alchemist by Paulo Cohelo
5. An Equal Music by Vikram Seth
6. To kill a mocking bird by Harper Lee
7. The Lord of the Rings by Tolkien
8. Midnight’s Children by Salman Rushdie
9. The Color Purple by Alice Walker
10. The Curious case of the dog in the night time by Mark Haddon

It was a coincidence that around this time I decided to blog about some books that I have read. In case you have read my post about the upcoming regular series. So, that’s when I figured, if I was going to be such a prude about getting the right names out in the social media – on a tag [ a silly one, soon to be forgotten], I might as well, write about these books which I think make me look good – read balanced & non biased & intellectual & having a taste for different kinds of literary works etc.

So, the series on books will – I will try and attempt these- be based on the top ten of my favorite books. And may be once I am through with this list, I can share with my readers the other 2 lists I made, the academic one and the easy read fiction one. Till then wish me luck.